A Balancing Act

     Watching someone balance on a tight rope, or even balance an object on their fingertips, leaves you in awe of their grace and effortless appearance. However, trade places and you realize how much effort and focus it requires. There are constant readjustments and near catastrophes. The key to balance is finding that equilibrium point.
     The same can be said for balance in so many parts of our lives. Yes, there are many responsibilities to balance and keep up with: work, family, friends, health, etc. Yet, there is more to it than just meeting obligations. We need recharge time to find mental and emotional balance -- constant readjustments. Sometimes we even need to just stop and really evaluate where we are in the balancing act. I find that communication and reflection do wonders for maintaining healthy balances in life. I can grab a solid hold on the details of life when I actually allow myself time to see the details. Relationships, careers, health...so much depends on a good balance. A little of this and a little of that. No one thing becoming too much of a priority. It takes some effort, for sure, but is most certainly worth it.

Pay attention to where that equilibrium point is and readjust if you need.

Never Underestimate Your Usefulness

     We are creatures of habit and fall into routines quite easily. Living within routine, I think that there is a point at which you feel not useful anymore. The job or the activities become the same old motions that don't seem to progress or maybe even matter. When this "staleness" settles in, it is good to step back and take a moment to fully recognize your own importance and value. Try to see the actual results of your work and take time to appreciate any gratitude that is given to you. Most likely you are more appreciated than you think -- I find that this is the case often for me.
     It also helps to realize that there are other areas in which you may prove very useful. We all have various talents and interests  -- pursue them! You may surprise a coworker or friend that you have more to offer. My current job is pretty routine, but I found that I was able to offer tax advice and computer support to a coworker. He was surprised, yes, but also very appreciative. I just had to share a little and be open to opportunities.

Don't let routine bog you down. Find refreshing ways to apply yourself.

Money Talks, But So Do People

     Money makes the world go round. It does certainly seem that way. I mean, I only have a few bills a month and I still feel like just the middle man passing money from one hand to another. First there are the necessities to fulfill and then the wants to acquire. Yet, in our society, a common desire is just for money alone. Yes, the money comes with a monetary value to be traded for goods and services - but there is so much more. With more money there is more power -- at least perceived power. Our society caters to those with large bank accounts and grants them that greater influence in various spheres.

     I fear that all that accompanies money contributes to large egos and false senses of entitlement. The arguments of "do you know how much I make in a year?" or "I pay good money for this?" are apparently intended to open all doors. This entitlement also contributes to a general mean arrogance -- thinking that you may treat people anyway that you wish.

     Here is an interesting comparison that I heard years ago. "Think of words to describe friendship." The answers included several very economic terms, including "value". When we are asked to think about what we truly find valuable, it is more often the people in our lives than the money that we have. The government and society may give great value to currency, but we do not have to follow suit. We should be more discerning about where we place value.

Think about where you place value and be sure that those things affect you in beneficial ways.

25 Years and Just Beginning

     Today I celebrate 25 years of existence. I find this fairly impressive. A quarter of a century is fairly daunting actually. Yet, to look at my life, I realize that I am just beginning in many ways. Life goals and plans are just taking form. My professional career needs time and work, for sure. Love and relationships are always growing. It is an exciting, but also nervous, time in life.
     Mostly, I am looking back at how far I have come and how much has changed. I wouldn't be where I am without all those people in my life who supported and encouraged -- loved and believed. So, a bit of gratitude to all of those ones in my life who have helped me along my path.

Take time to savor your day and truly appreciate those important people.